The Massage My Woman
29-Hour Combined Professional Training
(combining the Foundation, Intermediate, Advanced & Professional Launch Pad training)
(26 hours if the induction session not required)
The 29 hour Combined Professional Training incorporates six modules
- Module 1 – 3-hour Induction Session (to be taken if you have not had any previous training with Colin)
- Module 2 – 6-hour Foundation (taken as 2 x 3 hours)
- Module 3 – 6-hour Intermediate (taken as 2 x 3 hours)
- Module 4 – 6-hour Advanced Professional Training LaunchPad part 1 (taken as 2 x 3 hours)
- Module 5 – 5-hour Advanced Professional Training Training LaunchPad part 2 (taken as 1 x 5 hours or (1 x 2 & 1 x 3 hours)
- Module 6 – 3-hour Advanced Final Practice Massage. A final practice massage that can be filmed and a photo session for your marketing.
Module One
The 3-hour Induction Session
Cost – £300
(Part 1 can be selected as a stand-alone session without processing to other modules)
Take the Next Step Toward a Rewarding Career in Sensual Massage
To begin your journey toward becoming a professional sensual massage therapist for women, you must first complete a 3-hour Induction Session or have already taken an individual Experiential or Foundation class with Colin. This induction is essential for me to understand your motivations for pursuing a part-time or full-time career in this field and to explain the unique complexities and responsibilities involved.
During the session, you’ll have the chance to practice giving a sensual massage to a female volunteer, helping you understand the skills required to succeed. We’ll also explore the deeper motivations women have for seeking sensual massage, ensuring you’re fully prepared to offer a truly meaningful experience. In addition, we’ll discuss the financial aspects, including your budget, costs, and the timeline for making your practice a success.
After the Induction Session, I’ll either invite you to proceed directly into the Professional Training (parts 2 to 6) or, if necessary, recommend starting with the 6-hour Foundation Class to build your skills at a steady pace.
This is your opportunity to embark on a fulfilling and financially rewarding career. Take the first step today!
In this Induction class, you will
- Explain your motivation & ambitions.
- Discuss your marketing visibility and any concerns you have about confidentiality and showing your identity.
- Tell me about any massage experience or experience relating to supporting people.
- Describe your current relationship situation and how you see this working alongside this intimate work.
- Describe current or planned future living/working arrangements for giving sensual massage as a professional therapist.
- Discuss your health and emotional well-being for this role. This will involve discussing your upbringing and parental and family relationships when you are young.
- Discuss any concerns and ask questions about the training and ongoing business set-up.
- Watch and take part in giving a 75-minute full-body sensual massage to a female volunteer receiver.
Assessment
Completing the Induction Class does not guarantee automatic acceptance into the Professional Training. After the induction, I may recommend taking additional time to reflect on your decision before committing to the full training and its associated costs. In some cases, I might advise you to begin with 2 x 3-hour Foundation Classes, followed by 2 x 3-hour Intermediate Classes. After building your skills, you can then return for the full 15 hour of Professional Training.
Skipping the Induction Class
In certain circumstances, the Induction Class may be skipped. If you have prior experience in massage training or are already working professionally in sensual, intimate, or somatic bodywork, you may be able to proceed directly to the Foundation Class.
Module Two
The 6-hour Foundation Training
(taken as 2 x 3 hour modules)
Advanced materials and information
The day before your Foundation class, you will receive:-
- The Agenda for the Foundation class with details of the respective volunteer receivers you will be practising on
- A PowerPoint presentation of the massage that you will be learning
- Get the username and password to give you six month’s free access to the Intimate Tutorials website to view the online training videos. Period of free access starts on the first day of your Foundation training
In the 6-hour Foundation class, you will learn:-
- Learn about the biology and anthropology of female and male sexuality and how it relates to sensual massage.
- Receive an introduction to the psychology of female arousal and how it relates to physiological arousal.
- Give a full-body sensual massage with therapeutic, sensual and erotic techniques.
- To encourage slow seductive arousal by stimulating her mind by touching the sensitive non-erotic areas of the female body.
- To give breast and nipple massage
- To give buttock and upper thigh massage
- To master clitoral stimulation
- To explore external vaginal stimulation
- And observe via a demonstration of internal vaginal massage
- And observe via a demonstration of female ejaculation techniques
- To practice various positions to give clitoral stimulation
- To edge her towards multiple clitoral orgasms
- Bullet point guidance sheet provided
Module Three
The 6-hour Intermediate Training
(taken as 2 x 3 hour modules)
In the 6-hour Intermediate class, you will learn
- Additional therapeutic strokes
- External anal stimulation
- Internal anal stimulation ( optional)
- Therapeutic internal vaginal massage
- G Spot stimulation
- Body-on-body massage ( given naked )
- Assertive vaginal stimulation top & side positions
- Techniques to encourage female ejaculation
- Incorporating sex toys
- Positions for oral stimulation ( demonstrated, not given )
- Bondasage techniques ( dominant, i.e. spanking, restrictive holds)
- D Spot stimulation ( rear of the vagina )
Module Four
The 6-hour Advanced Training
(taken as 2 x 3 hour modules)
In this 6-hour class, we cover you will give two more practice massages on two female receivers, repeating all you have learned plus additional techniques that can be required by some female clients. These are:-
- Assertive & dominant techniques
- Anal finger stimulation
- Assertive vaginal and G spot stimulation
- Enabling female ejaculation
- Incorporating oral clitoral practice
- Incorporating vaginal oral stimulation (optional)
- Incorporating anal oral stimulation (optional)
- Simulating sexual intercourse
- Managing reciprocal arousal without losing the integrity of the massage
- Managing receiver-to-giver erotic interactions ie oral and masturbation
- Managing mutual arousal and positions for the masseur to be taken to ejaculation
Module 4: Advanced Training as an Add-On
Part 4 of the Advanced Training can be booked as an independent add-on to the Foundation & Intermediate Training, without the need to take Parts 5 or 6. This option provides flexibility for participants who have completed the Foundation & Intermediate Training but do not wish to continue with the entire professional advanced series.
Eligibility: Only individuals who have completed the Foundation & Intermediate Training are eligible to book Part 4 as a standalone add-on. Read more here
Module Five
The 5-hour LaunchPad Professional Training
(taken as 1 x 5 hour or 1 x 2 hour & 1 x 3 hour modules)
part 1 – 2 hours of business training and final practice massage
- Setting up your treatment space
- Insurance, confidentiality and security implementation
- Creating your brand and image
- Booking procedures and security
- Insurance
- Researching target markets, client management, business set-up, and productive cost-effective marketing.
- Six months of telephone support providing further ongoing advice and guidance
- Managing the appointment: introductions, how to conduct an appointment as a professional masseur, and tailoring to your client’s needs.
- Developing the techniques learned in the Foundation and Intermediate classes to apply them to a professional situation
- Understanding the motivations and situations that female clients may bring to the treatment
- Managing reciprocal touch and arousal
- Being able to provide a bespoke massage based on a completed Consent Authorisation & Request Form, and this the client needs
- Personal boundaries in a professional setting
- Certificate of completion
part 2 – 3 hours. 90-minute massage practice is given on your own with the volunteer receiver acting as a client.
Module 6
LaunchPad The Final Practice Massage
(taken as a 1 x 3 hour module)
You give this massage to the female receiver independently, with Colin just observing for the first twenty minutes when if required your massage can be part filmed for marketing on your website and marketing. After 20 minutes you give the full massage on your own to the female volunteer receiver.
Stand-alone Launchpad & Final Practice
If you decide to break up your training by taking the Foundation, Intermediate and Advanced Modules and the n at a later date return to take the 8 hours LaunchPad Professional & Final Practice the cost will be a further £900
Application Form
To apply for professional training, click here. The application does not mean you are making a booking. It gives me details of yourself and your motivation to take this session. Once I receive your registration form, I will contact you to discuss your motivations and expectations for the Professional Training.
Dates of training and time limits for taking the classes.
Classes for Professional training can be spread over a period but must be completed within twelve weeks of the first training date. If the training is not completed within this period, the remaining time is forfeited, and there is no refund.
When can I take a trainings?
The Induction session is three hours, and the Foundation Interdemate and Professional classes are held in four x three-hour sessions unless arranged differently with mutual agreement. Monday to Friday, 3-hour sessions can be taken between times of
- 10 am to 9 pm
Saturday 3-hour sessions
- 10 am to 6 pm
Sunday classes can be arranged by special request but are subject to a 10% additional cost for that particular module.
Over what period can I spread my classes?
- Combined Foundation & Intermediate 4 x 3 hours must be completed within six weeks.
- Professional Training must be completed within twelve weeks.
Frequency of sessions
The sessions involve intensive learning and massage practice. Therefore, it is recommended that students leave at least three days between each session to allow for rest and independent practice.
How soon do I need to book a training?
These classes are popular, and I am also busy with treatment appointments, so I generally run only one class daily. If you have specific dates, booking at least two weeks in advance is best.
Immediate bookings supplement cost
If you make an enquiry and want to book a class within seven days, I will charge an extra 10% if I can accommodate you.
Sharing the training with others
All prices are quoted for one person taking a class. If two people are taking the course together, 50% is added.
Prices
Option 1
Six different female volunteers + your massage – £2500
Practising on four different female volunteers in six practice sessions with your massage to follow after given by Colin
- Module 2 = two female volunteers in two practice massages
- Module 3 = two female volunteers in two practice massage
- Module 4 = one female volunteer in one practice massage + massage for yourself
- Module 5 = business set up session followed by one female volunteer in one practice massage
- Module 6 = You giving a practice massage filmed and edited by Colin for your marketing
Option 2
Seven different female volunteers (no massage for you) – £2600
Practising on seven different female volunteers in seven practice sessions (this does not include a massage for yourself)
- Module 2 = two female volunteers in two practice massages
- Module 3 = two female volunteers in two practice massages
- Module 4 = two female volunteers in two separate practice massages
- Module 5 = business, set up session followed by one female volunteer in one practice massage
- Module 6 = You giving a practice massage filmed and edited by Colin for your marketing
Option 3
Taking each training independently and not as a combined package = £3400
- Foundation = £750
- Intermediate = £850
- Advanced = £900
- Professional launchpad training = £900
Committing the combined package saves £800
Add On Your own Massage
If you decide to take option 4 and still want to receive a massage for yourself, this can be added as an extra taken as an arranged time for a 50% discount off quoted prices. This massage can be given as a two hands ( male only ) or for a 25% discount, take a four hands massage (male/female masseur)
Deposit & terms of payment on all training bookings
Whichever training you book, a 50% deposit is required upon booking. Unless a payment plan has been agreed the balance is due 24 hours before the first class starts.
Deposit & cancellation
You can cancel up to three days ( 72 hours ) before the first training day and have these two options.
- To receive back the full deposit.
- Transfer the training to another date.
Cancel within three days = Loss of deposit
If you cancel within three to two days of your booked class, you must either re-book another class date or lose your deposit.
24-hour cancellations or no-shows
If you cancel within 24 hours of the start time or do not show up on the day, you will lose your deposit.
Missing a training module
If you fail to turn up to any training module without giving advance notice you will not have the training module repeated nor will you receive any refund.
Take out cancellation insurance. To cover any cancellation, we recommend you seek a cancellation insurance policy.
Pay by instalments for the Professional training
I offer instalment plans that enable you to spread your payments over three months. For more details, contact Colin to explain your situation and request a payment plan. [Click here]
The Female Volunteer Receivers
Who will be my volunteer receiver?
A few days before a class is planned, I send out a volunteer request to the female volunteer list. When requesting a volunteer i need to give basic information on the male student taking the class. or group workshop. This will include a photo of the student and a bit of background information ( name or pseudonym, age, profession, ethnicity, nationality) on the student and his motivation for taking the class.
What if you can not find a volunteer receiver for my class?
Sometimes, particularly if I have short notice to arrange a volunteer, I may not be able to find a volunteer receiver for a class. In this case, the class will be postponed and moved to another date. A decision is made up to twelve hours before the class start time and we discuss a new date and time. I can run your class on weekdays in the morning, afternoons or evenings, however, to have a better chance of getting a volunteer receiver of your choice I recommend you take an evening class starting at 5 pm or 6 pm to finish at 8 pm or 9 pm finish as more female volunteers are likely to be free at that time. Saturday classes between 10 am and 6 pm also offer a wider selection of female volunteers
Professional Receivers
Testimonials from past students taking a Massage My Woman Class
From Luis October 2023
Did the massage My Woman Foundation and Intermediate course with Colin over two separate weekends. I was a little nervous at before I went to first lesson but was immediately put at ease by Colin once I arrived at his place. The training itself was great. Colin passes on his knowledge and you get “hands on” practice on some lovely volunteers. I would advise any man who loves his woman to do this course. It is amazing.
From Ash July 2023
Colin is a master of the field. He has a keen sense of psychology around sexuality, and is also incredibly well-versed in the anthropology and evolutionary biology of sex. Combine this with decades of experience and satisfied clients means Colin’s workshops are a one-of-a-kind wealth of knowledge in the art of sensual touch. Above all, Colin is very respectful, professional, and working with the volunteers alongside Colin has been a very enriching experience! (I took the MMW Foundation Class)
From Simon April 2023
Truly an amazing and enlightening experience, Colin’s wealth of knowledge and experience provided me with an in-depth insight into giving female pleasure. Was a very eye-opening experience and I learnt techniques that can extend beyond massage. Would highly recommend! Colin
From Jools March 2019
Now practising as Sensual Bodyworks in Leicester I’ve recently taken part in a private 20 hour sensual massage course with Colin of Intimacy Matters. Colin clearly has a lot of knowledge and experience in the field of sensual massage as well as other psychosensual treatments so was an obvious choice to train with. He is very professional but also operates relaxedly, putting everyone at ease, making for enjoyable training sessions and easy learning. The training sessions took place at Colin’s Battersea treatment room, which is worth a visit for the views alone. The 20 hours was taken as 4 x 5 hours sessions over a 3 week period which worked well, allowing me to digest what I had learned each time and practice elsewhere before coming back for the next session. There was a combination of demonstration massage, 4-hand massages with Colin, 2-hand massage with Colin giving advice and guiding and finally 2-hand massage with Colin providing feedback. I believe the training was invaluable and would recommend it to anyone considering offering sensual massage to their partner or professionally. I’d like to thank Colin and all the volunteers who so generously gave their time”
From Daniel June 2017
I attended a half-day course with Colin. From the outset, he put me at ease and was extremely generous with his knowledge throughout the session. I particularly liked how he encouraged me to develop my skills using different stokes, and how I could integrate new skills into my existing routine. I would really recommend this workshop for masseurs wanting to take their skills to the next level and to learn some really exciting sensual techniques.
TERMS & CONDITIONS & INSURANCE Colin Richards and Intimacy Matters have current Civil Liability Insurance (including Public/Products Liability and Professional Indemnity) that covers counselling services and therapeutic and sensual massage. Clients taking a sensual massage, a psychosenual massage or any form of sensual treatment or sensual massage classes that involves nudity, arousal, and erotic stimulation do so at their own risk. They will be asked to sign a waiver before taking the treatment. To read the full terms & conditions and insurance coverage, Click here