What is a Somatic Sex Engineer
and what is
Sensual Massage
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Who is Colin Richards?
I am a somatic sex engineer and problem solver for sexuality and relationships. My goal is to transform your sex life and relationships by blending my knowledge of sexual psychology with my experience as a sensual masseur. Since 2005, I’ve helped people overcome sexual frustrations, inexperience, lack of intimacy, performance challenges, fear of sex, boredom, and low libido, replacing them with new experiences, insights, and techniques for lovemaking and sexual fulfilment.
My approach is humanistic, considering the biological, psychological, social, anthropological, and sexual influences behind our desires, curiosities, and fears. I work with men, women, and couples of all orientations. Besides offering sensual massage treatments, I created the Psychosensual Treatment, combining psychological and physiological therapy for deeper sexual issues.
To enhance sexual confidence and foreplay skills, I run individual tuition classes and group workshops. I also give public talks and organize social events to foster a community of sexual wellness and fulfilment.
What is a Somatic Sex Engineer?
I sought a title that truly reflects my experience and approach to helping people with their intimacy and sexuality. “Therapist” felt too remedial, implying I only see people with sexual issues.
“Somatic” comes from the Greek word for “body,” relating to health and well-being.
I believe sexuality is a cornerstone of identity. If it’s not aligned, the whole self can feel unstable. Whether you have a specific issue, want to explore your sexual potential, or need help with sexual incompatibility, I can assist.
My work considers all aspects of human sexuality: biological, psychological, social, anthropological, emotional, and reproductive. Imbalances in these areas can lead to frustration, conflict, and ill health. My holistic approach aims to restore balance and fulfilment.
What is Sensual Massage?
Imagine the perfect blend of traditional therapeutic massage and intimate, sensual strokes. A sensual massage is the ultimate experience, seducing both body and mind. Light touch transitions into firm muscle work, leading to intimate arousal.
As a practitioner with 20 years of experience, I use my knowledge of sexual psychology, physiology, and primal processes to tailor each session. This approach offers immediate physical and emotional benefits, helping you explore your sensuality in a non-judgmental environment.
Whether you’re dealing with sexual frustrations, inexperience, or simply want to enhance your intimacy, a sensual massage can transform your experience. It’s more than just a massage—it’s a journey of self-discovery and connection.
Why Choose Sensual Massage?
- Ultimate Relaxation: Combines therapeutic techniques with sensual touch.
- Personalized Experience: Tailored to your unique needs and desires.
- Emotional and Physical Benefits: Reduces stress, boosts confidence, and enhances intimacy.
Is it Erotic or Sexual?
Yes, a sensual massage is designed to be erotic and may include orgasm. It mirrors the natural sexual arousal process, providing a deeply intimate experience.
Health Benefits:
- Natural Pain Relief: Boosts oxytocin and endorphins.
- Stress Reduction: Enhances mood and reduces anxiety.
- Improves Heart Health: Acts as aerobic exercise, boosting cardiovascular health.
- Boosts Immunity: Stimulates immune system cells.
Who Can Benefit?
Everyone! Whether you seek escapism, stress relief, self-exploration, or help with sexual performance issues, a sensual massage offers profound and varied benefits.
Why Intimacy Matters?
Experience the most fulfilling massage of your life in a safe, respectful, and professional environment. With my holistic approach, you’ll rediscover your primal instincts and desires, achieving relaxation and well-being like never before.
Book a session today and transform your intimate life with sensual massage.
Why Do We Love to Be Touched?
Intimate touch is one of life’s most pleasurable sensations and a vital part of human connection. From a comforting hand on the shoulder to intimate, caring touch, the way we are touched profoundly affects our psychology, creating feelings of trust and closeness essential for bonding.
The Origins of Intimate Touch
From our earliest ancestors to recent history, tactile, intimate touch was a natural part of human interaction. It fostered security, collaboration, and loving bonds without cultural, religious, or social constraints. Our biology has not changed much since those times; the desire for touch remains deeply ingrained in us.
The Power of Touch
When we are touched, skin receptors send signals to our central nervous system, influencing our autonomic nervous system and activating the brain’s primal areas. These responses trigger basic emotions like love, fear, and contentment, highlighting the fundamental role of touch in our lives.
Sensual Massage: Ancient Medicine for Modern Stress
A sensual massage offers a non-judgmental, open environment where arousal is welcomed. This experience enables deep relaxation, reducing tension and stress. Sensory messages from the skin affirm safety to the mind, releasing hormones that relax muscles and calm the mind, allowing us to exist in the moment.
Who Can Benefit from Sensual Massage?
Everyone can benefit, but the advantages vary. It can offer escapism, stress relief, self-exploration, or help with sexual anxieties and performance issues. For men, it can aid bonding, address erectile issues, or explore sexuality. For women, it provides physical pleasure without judgment. For couples, it reignites the sexual spark and offers new skills to practice together.
Identifying a Good Sensual Massage Therapist
A good therapist should be professional, acting with integrity and inspiring trust. The treatment area should be warm and welcoming. The therapist should explain the process and include therapeutic and sensual massage of the whole body. They should care deeply about their work and clients, working intuitively to meet individual needs while respecting boundaries.
Experience the profound and revolutionary benefits of a sensual massage—book your session today and reconnect with your primal desires.
Sensual Massage choices for women, men and couples
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Where Can I Get the Best Sensual Massage in the UK?
If you are looking for a highly experienced professional sensual masseur, I am your person. With 18 years of dedicated experience, I take my profession very seriously, committed to transforming attitudes towards sex and sexual arousal.
Once, when asked if I see myself as a sex worker, I said yes—I work with sex, just as a celebrity chef like Jamie Oliver or Gordon Ramsay works with food. I consider myself at the high end of the sex worker spectrum, akin to a 5-star chef. Like food, sex is a fundamental pillar of humanity, essential to life itself.
Why shouldn’t we approach sensual intimacy and sexual exploration with the same passion and creativity we’ve brought to the culinary world? While there’s “Big Mac sex” out there that can be satisfying, there is also 5-star sex, where the entire ambiance and effort create the best possible experience.
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Frequently Asked Questions
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TERMS & CONDITIONS & INSURANCE
Colin Richards and Intimacy Matters has current Civil Liability Insurance (including Public/Products Liability and Professional Indemnity) covering counselling services and therapeutic massage. Clients taking a sensual massage, a psychosenual massage or any form of sensual treatment or sensual massage classes that involves nudity, arousal, and erotic stimulation do so at their own risk. They will be asked to sign a waiver before taking the treatment. To read the full terms & conditions and insurance coverage, Click here