The Couples Sensual Massage Social
An event for Male/Female Couples or Intimate Paired Friends
Explore Sensuality in a Safe, Sophisticated Setting
Read these 5 star reviews given by past guests – click here
March 6th – £160 per two people
This event is not open to single males or females
You do not need to be a masseur to enjoy a sensual massage social just someone who enjoys giving or receiving intimate touch, sensual foreplay and slow meaningful sexual arousal.
Next Sensual Massage Social
To attend a Sensual Social Event please first complete the application form – Click here
Future Social Dates
Saturday 10th May – 4pm to 8pm – £175 for two people
Saturday 5th July – 4pm to 8pm – £175 for two people
Join Colin & Clare for an Unforgettable Occasion of Sensual Exploration
Step into a fun, intimate, and exciting atmosphere where you can connect with like-minded couples over a glass of bubbly or beer. Whether you’re looking to deepen intimacy with your partner or explore new connections, this event offers the perfect blend of relaxation, discovery, and pleasure.
Guidance & Guest Masseurs
Colin & Clare will be on hand to guide you through sensual massage techniques, with special guest masseurs to set the mood and ignite your senses.
A night of connection, touch, and sensual adventure awaits—join us!
Step into an extraordinary evening of sensual exploration designed exclusively for couples who want to deepen their intimacy, enhance their sensual touch, and connect with like-minded partners in a warm, welcoming environment.
The Couples Sensual Massage Social is a unique and elegant event where couples can explore the art of sensual massage and erotic foreplay in a relaxed, no-pressure atmosphere. Whether you’re curious beginners or already familiar with sensual massage, this experience offers a rare opportunity to explore, share, and indulge in erotic pleasure together.
We attended a social in December. We were welcomed with open arms by Colin & Clare and all the guests were very friendly. The atmosphere was very relaxed and we felt at ease throughout. A great evening spent with like minded, fun people we would highly recommend and very much intend on doing many more in the future.
A Safe & Inviting Space for Erotic Exploration
If you’ve ever wanted to explore your sexuality in a respectful, open-minded community, this event is the perfect introduction.
- No pressure, no expectations – Simply chat, observe, or participate at your own comfort level.
- Learn sensual massage techniques that heighten pleasure and deepen connection.
- Surround yourself with like-minded couples in an elegant, discreet setting.
- Enhance intimacy through guided sensual exploration in a safe and respectful space.
No prior experience in sensual massage is required—just an open mind and a willingness to embrace pleasure, connection, and erotic discovery. Whether you enjoy giving, receiving, or both, this sensual experience invites you to relax, explore, and awaken your deepest desires.
This is not a sex party but rather an occasion of sensual exploration where couples can immerse themselves in the power of touch in a safe, supportive environment. For those couples who want to explore deeper sexual interaction we have two semi private rooms with double beds.
Spaces are limited—reserve your spot today!
We recently attended a Sensual Massage Social and had a fantastic time. We met some lovely people and greatly enjoyed talking with like-minded couples and singles. We also learnt and experienced some very pleasurable new massage techniques, thoroughly recommend this event and look forward to attending another one ourselves in the future
A Unique, Sensory Experience for Couples
Held on select Saturday afternoons or Thursday evenings
Limited to 12 couples (24 participants max) for an intimate, relaxed atmosphere. Dedicated massage spaces for both shared and private exploration
Hosted at Colin’s stunning split-level private apartment in Sloane Square, Chelsea, this event takes place in a luxurious, open-plan space that blends sophistication, comfort, and intimacy.
Who Is This For?
This exclusive sensual massage social is designed for couples who:
- Couples of any age or sexual orientation
- Male/female close friends who play together
- Couples who enjoy giving and receiving intimate, creative touch to others
- Those who want to explore sensuality in a safe, pressure-free space
- Those couples who seek to deepen their connection through erotic massage
- Those who want to explore same gender intimate touch
- People who appreciate a refined, elegant setting for sensual discovery
Whether you’re new to sensual massage or already have experience, this gathering provides a supportive, pleasurable environment to enhance your intimate skills and connect with other couples who share your curiosity.
The Layout
The main room features up to four massage beds, offering plenty of space for participants to explore their sensual massage techniques. A cozy chill out area with sofa ben perfect for a break out chat or playful erotic intimate exploration. A separate bedroom with a luxurious king-size bed provides an ideal setting for more private experiences, and a shower and bathroom are available for refreshing breaks throughout the event.
Galleried balconies overlook the main room, giving a bird’s-eye view of the activities below. Participants are encouraged to experiment with both two-hand and four-hand massages, with options for mixed or same-gender pairings. To ensure a comfortable and enjoyable experience, we encourage open communication regarding your gender preferences and personal boundaries.
Your hosts, Colin and Clare, will be present throughout the evening to guide you, offering expert advice and assistance with massage techniques. Just ask! This event perfectly blends social interaction with intimate exploration, creating an inviting space to enhance your sensual massage skills.
Example programme for an evening event
4 pm to 4.45 pm welcome drink, light bites and meet the other guests
4.45 pm—7.45 pm Massage beds became available.
To ensure that all those who want to give or receive a massage get an opportunity, please check after 45 minutes of use to see if anyone else is waiting to use a massage bed. If not, you can continue using it for another 45 minutes.
8 pm – finish and farewells
The sensual social was a lovely evening with lots to experience. We had time to chat on arrival and meet other guests. Drinks were flowing and food was provided. Wasn’t long before massage tables were assembled and the sensual part was underway. There was a no pressure environment but never a shortage of guests to exchange massages with. Support and guidance from Colin and Clare was provided throughout the evening. A truly nurturing, enjoyable and sensual experience with a lovely group of open minded people. Would recommend
Ticket Price
- £160 – a couple / paired intimate friends
- The ticket price includes unlimited Prosecco and white wine, beer, throughout and soft and hot beverages for those who prefer a clear head, light bites and nibbles, oil for the massage, shower towels, and gowns. You are welcome to bring your own spirits, fizz, please, no red wine.
How to book your place
- Complete the application form.
- Once your application form is received, you will receive a link to purchase your ticket on the Design My Night ticketing website.
- Your place is not booked until the ticket has been purchased.
- Design My Night charges a small admin fee that will be added to your ticket.
- Once purchased, you will receive a receipt from Design My Night
- You will be sent the programme and etiquette for the occasion a few days before your event.
- You will also be sent the link to join the pre-social chat group to get to know other attendees beforehand.
If you have any problems, email Clare at ddevents@intimacymatters.co.uk Or call Colin or Whats App him on 07966 522 696.
All welcome
This is a male/female-gender event and is open to all sexualities ( straight, bisexual, heteroflexible, curious, ) and is a safe space for you to explore your sexuality safely and discreetly whilst having have a fabulous, fun, flirtatious, frisky, sexually fulfilling evening. It is an event where there are no expectations or pressure to engage in any activity that you are not comfortable with.
Consent
You can take this opportunity to chat and enjoy the company of like-minded people. You might also choose to strip off and give and receive a sensual massage with your partner. If you feel a wider connection, you may want to explore erotic touch with others. As long as it’s fully consensual, what you choose to do and how far you go is up to you. We hope everyone has a great time, but please remember that everyone has different desires and boundaries. Before approaching anyone, make sure they are open to playing and clarify how they like it. Please clearly communicate your sexual orientation—whether straight, bisexual, heteroflexible, or open to exploring same-gender touch; there are purple wristbands you can wear to indicate you are comfortable with same-gender intimacy—and indicate if you are comfortable being touched intimately. No means no. Anyone not respecting this will be asked to leave.
Age & body demographic
At the Couples Sensual Massage Social, we believe attraction goes beyond looks and body type. We start with a relaxing social time and encourage stimulating conversation to foster genuine connections. This allows participants of all ages to mingle and feel the potential chemistry before any intimate activity begins. Experience and wisdom can be just as sexy as toned biceps, pert breasts, and a tight bum. We aim to create an event with a diverse cross-section of ages and physiques. To achieve this, we will allocate places according to approximate age brackets, ensuring a well-rounded and inclusive experience for everyone.
Do not leave without you partner
You must arrive together and leave together unless separately arranged with the hosts.
Experience not necessary
Complete novices to sensual massage and adult play parties welcome
Massage experience is not necessary but you do need a love of giving and receiving erotic intimacy.
No pressure or expectation
You are not expected to take part in any sensual massage and you can remain a voyeurs but be discreet and do not hover
We aim to create an event with a diverse cross-section of ages and physiques.
The usual age range are as below
21 to 30 – 15%
31 to 40 – 25%
41 to 50 – 30%
50 to 60 – 30%
60 to 65 – 15%
Be kept informed
Be kept informedOr if you want to be kept informed about future events, you can Register Here
There is no vetting on looks or age
There is no vetting of attendees, but we always balance male and female numbers and a good spread of ages if appropriate.
Regular attendees may be limited.
However, since this social event is proving to be very popular, we may limit the places given to regulars so that newcomers can also enjoy the events, and we reserve the right to refuse applications without providing a reason.
What to wear
Some guests may be coming from work, so you are welcome to pop in the shower on arrival and change into something more relaxing. Otherwise, just come smart casual, but make sure what you have is not too precious, as massage oil can get on clothes. A suggestion for those who prefer not to get naked immediately is for women to bring underwear or something light and easily removable, and guys’ shorts and a t-shirt (a regular shirt and naked below is not a good look!). We also provide robes.
Cancellation Terms
Cancellation up to 4 weeks: After purchasing your ticket, you can cancel or transfer your ticket to another party date up to four weeks before the event at no charge.
Cancellation within 3 to 1 week: If you want to cancel or transfer your ticket to another date between 3 to 1 week before the event, you will be charged a £25 administration fee.
Serial transfers or cancellations—We will refund or transfer your ticket only once in line with the above terms. If you make a second booking, transfer your original ticket to another date, and cancel again, there is NO TRANSFER OR REFUND.
Cancellation within one week: If you cancel your ticket within one week of the event, there is NO REFUND OR TRANSFER TO OTHER EVENTS. No show at the event – If you are a no-show, then there is NO REFUND OR TRANSFER TO OTHER EVENTS To ask a question, email ddevents@intimacymatters.co.uk
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Sloane Place Sloane Square Hotel 11 Cadogan Gardens Premier Inn Battersea Mark and I had a fabulous time last night and I particularly enjoyed my attention towards the end of the evening!
It was a great evening!! Really enjoyed it. We are keen to make the next one! It was also a great forum to meet like minded people. We hope that you may do again. Amazing venue and it was great to see everyone so relaxed and at ease with their sensuality. We decided to remain as voyeurs as it was our first event like this as couple, but we have not stopped talking about it since. Also seeing some of the techniques and pleasure being given was enlightening and great to practice later on one another at home. We will defiantly come to your next social.
