The 29 Hour

Massage My Man

Combined Professional Training

Training for women who want to become part-time or full-time professional sensual masseurs.

This professional training is designed for those women who want a career as professional sensual massage therapists given to male (and female) clients. Whether to work part-time or full-time, the knowledge you will take from this course can launch you into a career that can potentially earn upwards of £5000 ($6000) a month as a full-time practitioner. You will become skilled in giving a 90-minute full-body sensual massage to a variety of body types and understand the many and varied motivations of men who want to experience sensual massage. 

This 29 hour Combined Professional Training incorporates six modules

  • Module 1 – 3-hour Induction class (to be taken if you have not had any previous training with Colin)
  • Module 2 – 6-hour Foundation training (taken as 2 x 3 hours)
  • Module 3 – 6-hour Intermediate training (taken as 2 x 3 hours)
  • Module 4 – 6-hour Advanced Professional Training Launch Pad  part 1 (taken as 1 x 6 or 2 x 3 hours)
  • Module 5 – 5-hour Advanced Professional Training Training Launch Pad part 2 ( taken as 1 x 5 hours or (1 x 2 & 1 x 3 hours)
  • Module 6 – 3 hour Advanced Final Practice. A filmed practice massage for your own marketing ( optional and taken as 1 x 3 hours )

Splitting the modules

If you have already taken the Foundation or Intermediate classes or attended a group workshop then you do not need to take module 1 the 3 hour Induction class.

If you have taken the Foundation class already you can skip module 1 and 2and go straight to module 3, 4, 5 and 6.

If you have taken the Foundation and Intermediate class you can skip module 1, 2, and 3,  to go straight to modules 4, 5 and 6.

Module 1- The 3-hour Induction Session

Cost – £300

(Module 1 can be selected as a stand alone session without processing to other modules)

To qualify to take modules 2 to 6 professional training, you must either have attended a 3-hour induction session or have taken an individual Experiential or Foundation class with Colin before hand.

The purpose of the Induction Session is for me to hear your motivation for wanting to embark on a career as a part or full-time sensual masseur for men and for me to explain the complexities and responsibilities of working in this capacity. It also inside you giving a sensual massage with me to a male volunteer receiver.  You must understand what is required to be a successful professional sensual for men and to learn about their motivations for taking this intimate treatment. We also discuss your budget and costs and the time scale of making your practice financially successful. After taking the Induction class, I will either invite you to continue to take the Professional Training or, on some occasions, I may feel you are better suited to begin by taking the 6-hour Foundation Class and build up to the Professional Training over a more extended time frame.

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In this Induction class, you will 

  • Explain your motivation & ambitions.
  • Discuss your marketing visibility and any concerns you have about confidentiality and showing your identity.
  • Tell me about any massage experience or experience relating to supporting people.
  • Describe your current relationship situation and how you see this working alongside this intimate work.
  • Describe current or planned future living/working arrangements for giving sensual massage as a professional therapist.
  • Discuss your health and emotional well-being for this role. This will involve discussing your upbringing and parental and family relationships when you are young. 
  • Discuss any concerns and ask questions about the training and ongoing business set-up.
  • Watch and take part in giving a 75-minute full-body sensual massage to a male volunteer receiver.

Assessment

Taking this induction class does not guarantee that you will be accepted to the professional training. It may be that after the induction, I believe you need more time to consider the decision before committing to the time and cost. I may recommend you start by taking a stand 2 x 3-hour Foundation Class and maybe follow on with the 2 x 3-hour Intermediate Class and then return at a future date for a further ten hours of the 2 x 5-hour professional training classes.

Skipping the Induction Class

In certain situations, the Induction Class can be skipped. If the student has already taken training in giving massages or is already working professionally, seeing clients for sensual/intimate/somatic bodywork, it may be possible to move directly to the Foundation Class.

Module 2 – Foundation Class

Taken as  2 x 3 hour Foundation class, you will learn:-

  • Learn about the biology and anthropology of male and female sexuality and how it relates to sensual massage.
  • Receive an introduction to the psychology of male arousal and how it relates to physiological arousal.
  • Give a full-body sensual massage with therapeutic, sensual and erotic techniques.
  • To encourage slow seductive arousal by stimulating his mind by touching the sensitive non-erotic areas of the male body.
  • To give buttock and upper thigh massage
  • How to give testicle teasing
  • How to use your body in the massage
  • How to maintain your boundaries while giving him a fantastic experience
  • How to give prostate massage
  • Various styles of genital massage
  • How to edge him to orgasm
  • Invitation to join the IMWORKSHOPS Telegram chat group to meet and share ideas and massage with like-minded others.
  • Be given one month’s complimentary membership to www.intimatetutorials.com 

Module 3 – Intermediate Class

(taken as 2 x 3 hours)

In the 6-hour Intermediate class, you will learn

  • Additional therapeutic strokes
  • External anal stimulation
  • Slip slide body massage
  • Body-on-body massage ( given naked )
  • Incorporating sex toys
  • Managing loss of erection
  • Managing premature ejaculation
  • Positions for receiving oral stimulation while giving the massage (demonstrated, not given)
  • Additional positions for edging to orgasm
  • Bondasage techniques (dominant, i.e. spanking, restrictive holds)

Module 4  – Advanced Class

Launch Pad Professional Training 

(taken as 1 x 6 hours or 2 x 3 hours)

In this 6-hour class, we cover:-

You will give two more practice massages on two further male receivers, repeating all you have learned plus additional techniques that can be required by some male clients. These being:-

  • Making allowances for age and body type
  • Understanding various male performance issues and causes ie PE and Loss of Erection
  • Incorporating oral giving practice
  • Incorporating vaginal receiving practice
  • Managing client to masseur erotic interactions ie oral and masturbation
  • Managing reciprocal arousal without losing integrity of the massage
  • Managing the appointment: introductions, how to conduct an appointment as a professional masseur, and tailoring to your client’s needs.
  • Developing the techniques learned in the Foundation and Intermediate classes to apply them to a professional situation
  • Understanding the motivations and situations that male clients may bring to the treatment
  • Managing reciprocal touch and arousal
  • Being able to provide a bespoke massage based on a completed Consent Authorisation & Request Form, and this the client needs
  • Personal boundaries in a professional setting

Module 5  – Advanced Class 

Launch Pad Professional Training 

(taken or 1 x 2 hours &  1 x 3 hours)

part 1 – 2 hours of business training and final practice massage

  • Setting up your treatment space
  • Insurance, confidentiality and security implementation
  • Creating your brand and image
  • Booking procedures and security
  • Insurance
  • Researching target markets, client management, business set-up, and productive cost-effective marketing.
  • Six months of telephone support providing further ongoing advice and guidance
  • Certificate of completion

part 2 – 3 hours of massage practice is given on your own when the volunteer receiver is worked with as you would a client

Module 6 – Advanced – The final practice massage – 3 hours

You give this to the male receiver independently, with Colin observing and if required it can be filmed if wanted for your website and marketing.

Application Form

To apply for professional training, click here.

The application does not mean you are making a booking. It gives me details of yourself and your motivation to take this session. Once I receive your registration form, I will contact you to discuss your motivations and expectations for the Professional Training.

Dates of training and time limits for taking the training.

Classes for Professional training can be spread over a period but must be completed within twelve weeks of the first class date. If the training is not completed within this period, the remaining time is forfeited, and there is no refund. 

When can I take atraining?

The Induction session is three hours, and the Foundation Interdemate and Professional classes are held in 4 x 3-hour sessions unless arranged differently with mutual agreement.

Monday to Friday, 3-hour sessions can be taken between times of

  • 10 am to 9 pm

Saturday 3-hour sessions

  • 10 am to 6 pm

Sunday classes can be arranged by special request but are subject to a 10% additional cost for that particular module.

Over what period can I spread my training?

  • Combined Foundation & Intermediate 4 x 3 hours must be completed within six weeks.
  • Professional Training must be completed within twelve weeks.

Frequency of sessions

The sessions involve intensive learning and massage practice.  Therefore, it is recommended that students leave at least three days between each session to allow for rest and independent practice.

How soon do I need to book a training?

These trainings are popular, and I am also busy with treatment appointments, so I generally run only one class daily. If you have specific dates, booking at least two weeks in advance is best.

Immediate bookings supplement cost

If you make an enquiry and want to book a class within seven days, I will charge an extra 10% if I can accommodate you.

Splitting the training

Can I take the Foundation training  and then return later and take the Intermediate or Professional training without repeating the Foundations class? Yes, the Foundation Class can be followed by a further six hours of Intermediate training or 11 hours of Professional launch pad training; however, the cost is higher for split training.

Sharing the training with others

All prices are quoted for one person taking a training.  If two people are taking the course together, 50% is added.

Prices

Prices are all-inclusive of vat at 20%

Option 1 – Six different male volunteers + your massage – £2200

Practising on four different female volunteers in six practice sessions with your massage to follow after given by Colin 

  • Module 2 = two male volunteers in two practice massages
  • Module 3 = two male volunteers in two practice massage
  • Module 4 = one male volunteer in one practice massage + massage for yourself
  • Module 5 = business set up session followed by one female volunteer in one practice massage
  • Module 6 = You giving a practice massage filmed and edited by Colin for your marketing

Option 2 – Seven different male volunteers (no massage for you) – £2300

Practising on seven different female volunteers in seven practice sessions (this does not include a massage for yourself)

  • Module 2 = two male volunteers in two practice massages
  • Module 3  = two male volunteers in two practice massages
  • Module 4 = two male volunteers in two separate practice massages
  • Module 5 = business, set up session followed by one female volunteer in one practice massage
  • Module 6 = You giving a practice massage filmed and edited by Colin for your marketing

Option 3 – Mixed gender, three male volunteer and three female volunteers – £2400

  • Module 2 = two male volunteers in two practice massages
  • Module 3  = two female volunteers in two practice massages
  • Module 4 = one female and one female volunteer in two separate practice massages
  • Module 5 = business, set up session followed by one female volunteer in one practice massage
  • Module 6 = You giving a practice massage on either a male or female and filmed and edited by Colin for your marketing

Add On Your own Massage

Option 2 & 3 if you still want to receive a massage for yourself, this can be added as an extra taken as an arranged time for 50% discount off quoted prices. This massage can be given as a two hands ( male only )  or for 25% discount, take a four hands massage (male/female masseur)

Buy Now Pay Later – spread payments

Take six weeks to pay for the class of your choice.

Spread training and payment over six months.

To help, I offer instalment plans that enable you to spread your payments over six months. For more details [Click here]

Deposit & terms of payment on all class and training bookings

Whichever class you book, a 50% deposit is required upon booking. The balance is due 24 hours before the first class starts.

Deposit & cancellation 

You must pay a 50% deposit on booking. The balance of payment is due the day before your class starts. You can cancel up to three days ( 72 hours ) before the first training day and have these two options.

  • To receive back the full deposit.
  • Transfer the class to another date.

Loss of deposit

If you cancel within three to two days of your booked class, you must either re-book another class date or lose your deposit.

24-hour cancellations or no-show If you cancel within 24 hours of the start time or do not show up on the day, you will lose your deposit.

Missing a training module

If you fail to turn up to any training module without giving advance notice you will not have the training module repeated nor will you receive any refund.

Take out cancellation insurance. To cover any cancellation, we recommend you seek a cancellation insurance policy.

TERMS & CONDITIONS & INSURANCE Colin Richards and Intimacy Matters have current Civil Liability Insurance (including Public/Products Liability and Professional Indemnity) that covers counselling services and therapeutic and sensual massage.  Clients taking a sensual massage, a psychosenual massage or any form of sensual treatment or sensual massage classes that involves nudity, arousal, and erotic stimulation do so at their own risk. They will be asked to sign a waiver before taking the treatment. To read the full terms & conditions and insurance coverage, Click here

Male Volunteers

You may practice on one to six male volunteer receivers depending on your chosen class.
I currently have about 300 men on my volunteer receivers list. Almost all these men have been to see me as a client or taken a class, or have received a demonstration massage from me and then decided to volunteer. They are aged between 21 and 55 and can be of any ethnicity or physique, from slim, toned, and masculine. All are very comfortable with other sexuality and are eager to help women learn more about sensual foreplay and the erotic arousal of men.

When I have a class booked a couple of days before the class, I send out a request to those on the list giving basic details of the student whom I require a receiver for. I send them your image, your name ( it can be a pseudonym) and basic information about you ( profession, age, sexuality) and your motivation for taking the class.

If a student selects to have a volunteer from this list as their receiver rather than bring their own, I try to match the student’s desired type as stated on their application form. However, age and body type are never guaranteed, as much depends on who is available on the day.  The men on this volunteer list are happy to receive genital arousal and body-to-body contact within the massage; however, giving any reciprocal touch back to the students is their decision on the day.

Testimonials

  • Given by Naomi – Massage My Man 20-hour Professional Training February / March 2023

I have just completed the 20-hour Professional massage course with Colin and learned so much about making psychology and arousal. I am an escort and have found a difference in the type of clients I have had come for the massage. They are more chilled out Type B, whereas the escort clients are often Type A personality fast lane drivers. It’s been exciting to meet different types of clients and experience more relaxing interactions where everything flows much slower. It’s been great to learn all the massage techniques to give guys the ultimate pampering experience and fully let go without having to perform or feel under pressure. Colin picked some amazing volunteers; we trained in his premises in Sloane Square, which is very easy to get to, a lovely venue. Colin has so much knowledge and techniques you couldn’t learn anywhere else. For any person wanting to learn new skills and connect better with their partner, this is the best place to learn or train as a massage therapist.

  • Given by Sarah – Massage My Man workshop learning to give erotic massage to men – October 2020

A great experience. Colin makes you feel at ease and takes you on a journey to discover exciting aspects of sexuality in a friendly, engaging environment. I highly recommend this to singles or couples who want to learn about themselves and spend a relaxing evening with like-minded people.

  • Given by Faith – Level 2 Workshop learning how to provide a sensual massage to both males and females – January 2019

I had a fantastic experience and learned a lot of techniques required to perform an erotic massage that will hopefully enable me to enhance my sexuality with my partner. Aside from the method, Colin also was very comprehensive in consulting the psychological side of it. Thx

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TERMS & CONDITIONS & INSURANCE 

Colin Richards and Intimacy Matters has current Civil Liability Insurance (including Public/Products Liability and Professional Indemnity) that covers both counselling services and therapeutic and sensual massage.  Clients taking a sensual massage, a psychosenual massage or any form of sensual treatment or sensual massage classes that involves nudity, arousal, and erotic stimulation do so at their own risk and will be asked to sign a waiver before taking the treatment. To read the full terms & conditions and insurance cover Click here