Massage My Woman
Sensual Massage Individual Training
For Men Who Like Women
Teaching men the art of giving a woman a full-body sensual massage incorporating enhanced foreplay skills and integrated erotic techniques
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Become a Confident Lover with Intimacy Matters
Throughout our education, we’re taught various subjects to prepare for life, but crucial lessons on intimacy and fulfilling relationships are often neglected. Schools cover basic biology and sexual health, but meaningful guidance on being a great lover is missing.
Investing in your intimate education is essential for your partner’s satisfaction and your confidence. At Intimacy Matters, Colin Richards offers practical sexual guidance every man deserves. Our sensual massage and sex classes for men are designed to help you:
Invest
In yourself and transform your intimate life.
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- Overcome Performance Issues – Gain the skills to perform confidently.
- Enhance Your Abilities – Learn techniques that make you feel genuinely gifted as a lover.
- Boost Your Confidence – Become the sexually confident man women desire.
Application
Book your training session today with Intimacy Matters. Click here to apply
Men who like men
If you are a gay or bisexual man or a man who wants to give other men a sensual massage view the Touch & Turn ON training. Click here.
Massage My Woman Training Choices
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Why men of all generations should take a class
the ultimate sensual massage training and sex classes for men
Age 21 – 35:
Many young men who enjoy sex with women believe their natural sex drive alone will satisfy their partners’ sexual desires. However, women in this age group often find that their male partners lack knowledge of foreplay and tend to rush, focusing too much on the goal of orgasm. This approach can lead to disappointment. Incorporating sensual massage into lovemaking slows the process, delaying penetration so that both partners can reach the pinnacle of pleasure together. Learning these techniques can transform your sexual experiences, making them more satisfying for both you and your partner.
Age 35 – 50:
Men in this generation often realize that something is missing in their lovemaking repertoire. Comments from a girlfriend or a lack of interest in sex from wives and long-term partners can signal the need to expand their knowledge and skills in giving pleasure. Beyond the occasional book or online tutorial, there are few places to gain practical, experienced knowledge. Sensual massage classes can change this, energizing long-term relationships and making sex fun and adventurous for both partners. By learning these techniques, you can become an expert lover, enhancing intimacy and satisfaction in your relationships.
Teaching the ultimate sex classes for men to become expert lovers to women.
Age 50 – 70:
It’s never too late to learn how to give pleasure. Men in this age group often face challenges with maintaining an erection, and if penetration has always been their focus, this can cause frustration. Learning to give an erotic massage as part of lovemaking allows older men to use other skills and techniques to satisfy their partners. This shift takes the emphasis off penetration, making it a pleasant option rather than an anxious expectation. Embrace these skills to enhance your sexual experiences and deepen your connection with your partner.
Age 70 and up:
There is no age limit to giving erotic pleasure; it is both emotionally and physiologically fulfilling. Regular intimate connection is healthy for both you and your partner. Men of this generation should invest in sensual massage for their health and well-being as much as for their partners. By mastering these techniques, you can continue to give and receive pleasure, enriching your intimate relationships at any age.
Class Details
When can I take a class?
The Experiential session is 2.5 hours, and the Foundation Interdemate and Professional Classes are held in 2 x 3-hour sessions unless arranged differently with mutual agreement
Monday to Friday 3-hour sessions are usually between:-
- 10 am to 9 pm
Saturday 3-hour sessions
- 10 am to 3 pm
Sundays can be arranged by special request but will add a 15% extra charge
Over what period can I spread my classes?
The 6-hour Foundation Training – 2 x 3 hours must be completed within four weeks
The 6-hour Intermediate Training 2 x 3 hours must be completed within four weeks
The 12-hour Combined Foundation & Intermediate Training 4 x 3 hours must be completed within eight weeks
The 6 hour Advanced Training – 2 x 3 hour must be completed within four weeks
The 29-hour Combined Professional Training
Part 1 – The 3-hour Induction (to be taken if you have not had any previous training with Colin)
Part 2 – The 6-hour Foundation (taken as 2 x 3 hours)
Part 3 – The 6-hour Intermediate (taken as 2 x 3 hours)
Part 4 – The 6-hour Advanced Training (taken as 2 x 3 hours)
Part 5 – The 5-hour Advanced Professional Training Training Launch Pad ( taken as 1 x 5 hours or (1 x 2 & 1 x 3 hours)
Part 6 – The 3-hour Advanced Final Practice. A filmed practice massage for your own marketing ( optional and taken as 1 x 3 hours )
How soon do I need to book a class?
These classes are popular, and I am also busy with treatment appointments, so I generally run only one three-hour class a day if you have specific dates, it is best to book at least two weeks in advance.
Immediate bookings – 10% supplement cost
If you make an enquiry and want to book a class within seven days, an extra 10% charge will be made if I can accommodate you.
Splitting the classes
Can I take the Foundation class and then return later and take the Intermediate or Advanced training without repeating the Foundations class?
Yes, The Foundation Class can be followed by a further 6 hours of Intermediate training or 15 hours of Advanced training; however, the cost is more being split classes.
Sharing the training with others
All prices are quoted for one person taking a class. If two people are taking the course together, 50% is added.
Application Form
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The application does not mean you are making a booking. It just details yourself and your motivation to take a particular class. Once your application form is received, I will contact you to discuss your reasons and expectations for taking the class.
Deposit & terms of payment on all class and training bookings
Whichever class you book, a 50% deposit is required upon booking. The balance is due 24 hours before the first class starts.
Deposit & cancellation
You must pay a 50% deposit on booking. The balance of payment is due the day before your class starts. You can cancel up to three days ( 72 hours ) before the first training day and have these two options.
- To receive back the full deposit.
- Transfer the class to another date.
Loss of deposit
If you cancel within three to two days of your booked class, you must either re-book another class date or lose your deposit.
24-hour cancellations or no-show
If you cancel within 24 hours of the start time or do not show up on the day, you will lose your deposit.
Take out cancellation insurance.
To cover any cancellation, we recommend you seek a cancellation insurance policy.
The Female Volunteer Receivers
Who will be my female receivers?
You may practice your massage skills on one to seven female volunteers, depending on your chosen class. I currently have around 240 women on my volunteer list. Most are professional women who have previously been clients or received demonstration massages and decided to volunteer. They range in age from 21 to 55 and represent diverse ethnicities and body types, from slim to curvy. All are comfortable with their sexuality and volunteer to help men improve their skills in sensual foreplay and enhancing erotic experiences for female partners.
A few days before a class, I send a request to the volunteers, providing basic information about the male student, including a photo, name or pseudonym, age, profession, ethnicity, nationality, and motivation for taking the class.
I strive to match the student’s preferred type of volunteer based on their application, though age and body type cannot be guaranteed, as availability varies. Generally, the volunteers are open to clitoral and vaginal stimulation and body-to-body contact during the massage. However, oral stimulation and reciprocal touch are left to the volunteer’s discretion on the day of the class.
What if you can not find a volunteer receiver for my class?
Occasionally, especially with short notice, I may be unable to secure a volunteer receiver for a class. If this happens, the class will be postponed and rescheduled. This decision is made up to twelve hours before the class start time, and we will discuss a new date and time.
I can schedule your class on weekdays in the morning, afternoon, or evening. However, to increase the likelihood of finding a volunteer receiver that matches your preferences, I recommend opting for an evening class starting at 5 pm or 6 pm, and ending around 8 pm or 9 pm, as more female volunteers are typically available at that time. Saturday classes between 10 am and 6 pm also offer a broader selection of volunteers.
Professional Receivers
Payment Plans
I like to make sensual massage accessible for everyone, but I sometimes realise that even though the desire is strong, the cash flow situation may not allow you to take an appointment or workshop with me when you want to.
Buy Now Pay Later
Take six weeks to pay for the class of your choice.
Spread training and payment over six months.
To help, I offer instalment plans that enable you to spread your payments over six months. For more details [Click here]
Mixed Gender Classes
A combination of male & female volunteers – sensual massage sex classes for men
a) 5-hour Foundation – Two practice sessions – Practising on one male and one female volunteer – £700
b) 10-hour Intermediate -Four practice sessions- Practising on three females and one male volunteer or visa versa or two males & two females – £1200
c) 20-hour Professional – Six practice sessions – Practising on a combination of two male and four female volunteers with a massage for student – £2200
Other combinations can be c
If you cannot get to London to take a class, Learn online.
Visit Colin’s online tutorials, Intimate Tutorials.
To view all the students who completed classes in 2022 – CLICK HERE
Testimonial from Jools March 2019
Now practising as Sensual Bodyworks in Leicester
I’ve recently taken part in a private 20 hour sensual massage course with Colin of Intimacy Matters. Colin clearly has a lot of knowledge and experience in the field of sensual massage as well as other psychosensual treatments so was an obvious choice to train with. He is very professional but also operates in a relaxed manner putting everyone at ease making for enjoyable training sessions and easy learning. The training sessions took place at Colin’s Battersea treatment room, which is worth a visit for the views alone. The 20 hours was taken as 4 x 5 hours sessions over a 3 week period which worked well, allowing me to digest what I had learned each time and practice elsewhere before coming back for the next session. There was a combination of demonstration massage, 4-hand massages with Colin, 2-hand massage with Colin giving advice and guiding and finally 2-hand massage with Colin providing feedback. I believe the training was invaluable and would recommend it to anyone thinking of offering sensual massage either to their partner or professionally. I’d like to thank Colin and all the volunteers who so generously gave their time”
Testimonial from Daniel June 2015
I attended a half-day sex classes for men course with Colin. From the outset, he put me at ease and was extremely generous with his knowledge throughout the session. I particularly liked the way in which he encouraged me to develop my skills using different stokes, and how I could integrate new skills into my existing routine. I would really recommend this workshop for masseurs wanting to take their skills to the next level and to learn some really exciting sensual techniques.
To view all the students who completed classes in 2022/23 – CLICK HERE
TERMS & CONDITIONS & INSURANCE
Colin Richards and Intimacy Matters have current Civil Liability Insurance (including Public/Products Liability and Professional Indemnity) that covers counselling services and therapeutic and sensual massage. Clients taking a sensual massage, a psychosenual massage or any form of sensual treatment or sensual massage classes that involves nudity, arousal, and erotic stimulation do so at their own risk and will be asked to sign a waiver before taking the treatment. To read the full terms & conditions and insurance coverage, Click here
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