The Absolute Premium Massage

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How to book your appointment

There are several ways to book your appointment.

Online – Click on the BOOK HERE button below. You will not be asked to pay anything or to leave any payment details but the booking will be held only as provisional until Colin has confirmed his availability.

1) select  treatment

2) select women’s two hands

3) select the massage you want

4) press next and view calander

5) if you want to go ahead and book select your date and time

6)i if you have been to see me before log in or add your details

7) you will receive an email and or text confirmation that your booking is being held provisionally ( until I confirm this  back to you )

Phone – For those wanting confidentiality, you can call, text or WhatsApp Colin, and he will book for you. Call Colin at 0044 (0)7966 522696

Enquire – Complete this form giving details of your motivation and desires for the massage – Click here

Live chat with Colin online or leave a message

Ways to pay

Treatments can be paid for by bank transfer, cash, card or direct debit.

Pay by barter

In certain circumstances, I can offer an exchange ( barter ). Your skills in exchange for sensual massage  see here.

Students discount

I am happy to consider a discount for students attending a bona fide university on a full-time course who are not employed full-time.   Discounts can be anything from 10% to 50%. The discount depends on my availability and if you can fit it into my quieter time slots or sometimes as a last-minute booking.

Those with low income 

I like to make my services available to everyone, so if you genuinely need to see me for help, but your budget is limited, email me explaining your circumstances, and I will do my best to sort something out.

Consent Authorisation & Request Forms

Absolute Consent Authorisation & Request Form. This form can be completed without booking an appointment, as it allows you to see what elements can be included in this most erotic massage. Once I have received the completed form, I will design the treatment that best fits your desires and boundaries.

Client Agreement & Satisfaction Form

Upon arrival, you will be offered water, tea, coffee or a glass of wine. The appointment begins with a brief chat to answer any final questions you may have and confirmation that there are no changes to your Authorisation & Request Form.  I will ask you to read and sign the Client Agreement & Satisfaction of Service Form. After the treatment is completed and before you leave, provided you are satisfied with the treatment, I will ask you to re-sign this form confirming your satisfaction with the services given.

How to join

1. If you don’t have it already, download the Telegram chat app on your phone or computer – https://telegram.org
2. Or if you have Telegram, click on this link to go straight to the group IM Review Group For Women 
3. Once in the group, feel free to ask any questions, and others will answer.
4. If you require a private chat request to have a DM conversation.
5. You can use a false name, and you don’t need to give any personal details you don’t want to
6. Please include a small profile image of yourself to guarantee identity, as this is a women-only group, and men attempting to join will be blocked.
7. If you do not want to add an image to your profile, please send an image by DM to Colin, who officiates the group.

Terms of cancelation of your appointment

You can cancel your appointment at any time up to 24 hours before and there is no cost. If you cancel within 24 hours, you have the choice to rebook for another time and date and book a new appointment to be taken within 6 months or lose any deposit paid. If you cancel on the day off your appointment or you are a NO SHOW, you are expected to pay 100% of the fee. Repeat cancellations will be required to pay the full fee in advance.

The above cancellation terms do not apply to any special offers which will have thier own specific cancelation terms.

Motivation

Some reasons women have given for choosing the Absolute Sensual Massage

The motivation to embark on a journey of sensual and sexual self-exploration is often multi-faceted. Here are some reasons past female clients have shared when booking an Absolute Sensual Massage:

• For women who regularly enjoy professional massages but also seek intimate, arousing touch to connect with the deeper, primal, and sensual aspects of themselves.
• For women who desire the firm yet tender touch of a man without the pressure to perform or reciprocate sexually.
• Curiosity about ejaculation: Some women have always wanted to explore whether they can experience ejaculation and see this massage as a safe way to do so.
• To explore specific aspects of erotic arousal that they feel unable to explore with their current or potential new partner.
• For women who know that arousal and orgasm can be achieved through gentle, prolonged intimate touch rather than penetrative intercourse and want to experience this fully.
• To compensate for a lack of satisfaction in their day-to-day sex life: Some women seek an intimate experience that fulfills their needs outside of their usual sexual routine.
• For women facing issues such as loss of libido, fear of intimacy, painful intercourse, orgasmic dysfunction, insecurity, or sexual inexperience, this massage provides a therapeutic and explorative space to address these concerns.
• Single women who are content without a relationship but miss the intimacy and tender touch that a relationship typically offers.
• For women who believe in experiencing arousal and orgasm without the commitments and responsibilities that come with a relationship.
• For those in marriages or partnerships where intimacy has declined: The massage offers discreet, safe, and professional intimate attention without challenging their existing relationship. This is particularly relevant for women from cultural backgrounds where exploring sexuality is discouraged.
• For inexperienced women who want to discover new sensations and explore new dimensions of erotic arousal.
• For older women experience a surge in libido that their partner or current situation cannot satisfy.
• For mature women who remain very sexual but prefer to explore their desires discreetly in a safe, professional environment without impacting their personal lives.

These motivations highlight the diverse and personal reasons women choose the Absolute Sensual Massage, each seeking to fulfil a unique aspect of their sensual and sexual journey.

This Massage may not be suitable for:

• Women who experience high anxiety or fear of sexual intimacy.
• Those who are sexually inexperienced and may not be ready for this level of exploration.
• Women who are excessively overweight, as the physical demands of the massage may be challenging.

Products Used During the Massage

The massage is performed using grapeseed massage oil, known for its light, non-greasy texture that nourishes the skin. For any genital stimulation, I use a water-based lubricant to ensure comfort and ease. If you prefer not to use these products, please inform me in advance, and you are welcome to bring along any alternatives you prefer.

The Absolute Premium Massage

A Description

Preparation

The Absolute Massage is a 105-minute experience designed to meet your unique needs and preferences. By completing the Consent Authorisation & Request Form, you have the opportunity to design the content of the massage and set clear boundaries. This form allows you to:

• Specify the type of touch: Indicate the kind of touch you wish to enjoy, whether it’s gentle, firm, or a combination of both.
• Define the level of erotic arousal: You can express the intensity and type of erotic stimulation you are interested in exploring, from subtle arousal to more direct and bold techniques.
• Set boundaries: Clearly outline any boundaries you do not want to be crossed during the massage. This ensures that the experience remains fully within your comfort zone.

Completing this form allows me to create an experience that aligns with your expectations, helping you feel secure, respected, and fully in control. Whether you’re curious about what the Absolute Massage can offer or are ready to book an appointment, reviewing and completing the Consent Authorisation & Request Form is a valuable first step in your journey.

This preparation process not only informs you about the possible elements and phases of the Absolute Massage but also ensures that your desires and limits are fully understood and respected, making your experience as personalised and fulfilling as possible.

A Journey in Five Phases

The Absolute Sensual Massage is a deeply personalized experience, designed to cater to your desires, responses, and boundaries. The massage unfolds in five phases, each tailored to your unique journey of sensual exploration:

1. Overture – Gentle Introduction
   • A soft and calming beginning, setting the stage for deeper relaxation and connection.
2. Revelation – Therapeutic Release with Teasing Touch
   • A traditional therapeutic massage focusing on relieving tension and stress while introducing teasing touches near intimate areas to gently instigate arousal.
3. Seduction – Intensified Stimulation
   • The massage continues with a more direct, stimulating touch, including the option for clitoral stimulation, deepening your arousal and connection to your sensuality.
4. Abandonment – Focused Erotic Stimulation
   • At this stage, the focus shifts to providing direct erotic stimulation. This can include vaginal massage, G-spot stimulation, and more assertive techniques aimed at awakening your primal sexuality.
5. Reprise or Resolution – Your Choice
   • You decide when and how the massage concludes, ensuring that your experience ends on your terms.

The Overture: The therapeutic relaxing phase

The Overture is the start of your Absolute Sensual Massage experience, designed to gently ease you into a state of relaxation and comfort. This phase follows the principles of a traditional therapeutic massage, focusing on relaxing your body, relieving any tension or muscle strain, and preparing your mind and body to feel safe, secure, and open to the experience.

The Overture starts with a soothing head or foot massage, which serves to awaken your senses and bring your attention into the present moment. Following this, I use light, gentle touches across your whole body to further enliven your senses and help you begin to unwind.

Next, I apply warm oil to your back, shoulders, and buttocks, and then spend a full 25 minutes giving you a gentle yet confident massage. The focus here is on working out any knots or tension, encouraging your body to release stress and fully relax. You are welcome to guide me on the pressure you prefer, whether firmer or lighter, to ensure your comfort and satisfaction.

Throughout the Overture, I remain dressed, allowing you to gradually ease into the experience while maintaining a sense of safety and trust. This phase is all about creating a foundation of relaxation and peace, setting the stage for the more sensual elements of the massage that will follow.

Revelation: Awakening sensuality

As you begin to relax deeply and your body responds to the therapeutic touch, the massage gradually transitions into a more subtly arousing experience. In this phase, my hands will start to explore more intimate areas of your body, teasing and caressing with intention. I focus on your thighs, buttocks, calves, and lower back, all areas that hold tension and respond well to gentle, stimulating touch.

As your arousal begins to build—indicated by your movements, sounds, or natural lubrication—I will introduce light clitoral stimulation and external vaginal massage. This touch is designed to gently encourage your desire for deeper exploration, creating a sense of anticipation. During this phase, I can remain dressed or undressed, depending on your preference and comfort level.

Seduction: Deepening the connection

As your arousal heightens, the massage progresses into the Seduction phase, where erotic exploration takes center stage. The essence of this phase is to help you feel completely open to manual stimulation, allowing you to connect with your deepest primal female energies. This is a time for you to fully immerse yourself in the experience, free from judgment or expectation.

You are invited to express yourself in whatever way feels natural—whether through movement, sound, or simply by surrendering to the sensations. My touch follows the guidelines you provided in the Consent Authorisation & Request Form, but I am also attuned to any changes you wish to make during the session as you become more at ease.

Phase three, four and five may include the following erotic elements

This can be tailored to your own specific desires by completing the Consent Authorisation & Request Form prior to taking the massage.

• Gentle, sensual touch across the whole body.
• Firm muscle work for deep relaxation.
• Assertive but caring control, tailored to your comfort.
• Surface stimulation of the breasts, nipples, and clitoris.
• Internal stimulation of the vagina and G-spot.
• Optional oral stimulation, whether receiving or giving.
• Optional external and internal anal stimulation.
• Probable multiple orgasms and female ejaculation.
• Spanking and light impact play.
• Optional reciprocal touch, allowing you to arouse the masseur while receiving.
• Special requests are considered, including fantasies, domination, and toys.

To learn more about the next three phases

To discover more about the next three phases of the Absolute Premium Massage, you can register for access to the private area of the website at Intimacy X.

Once registered, you’ll gain access to the full, uncensored descriptions of this and other sensual massages available.

Alternatively, you can contact me directly via email at colin@intimacymatters.co.uk  or text or whats app me at 07966 522 696 to request a link to a page where you can view further details.

• Seduction continued
• Abandonment
• Reprise or Resolution

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My location

My Treatment Room is located in Sloane Square Chelsea Central London SW1X – Click here

My private treatment venue is in a small gated courtyard moments from Sloane Square and the King’s Road. It has a stylish open-plan design created for the trendy Kings Road artists and musicians of the late 1960s. The treatment room is very private and quiet and has a modern walk-in shower. Towels, robes and a hairdryer are provided.

The Absolute Premium massage, as featured in the media

Colin and The Absolute Massage was featured in 2018 and 2019 in Channel 5’s ‘The Sex Business’ and has also been featured in Cosmopolitan Magazine, Cosmo’s All The Way Podcasts, The BBC, Metro, The Independent and several other national media outlets. Popular with women of all ages, it was also trialled by Rebecca Dakin, ‘The Great British Sexpert, ’  as seen in the video below. A client of Colin’s Cee Cee talked to Cosmopolitan’s Pasley Gilmore in her podcast about how the Absolute Massage changed her life. About Colin ( your masseur )

About Colin (your masseur)

As a Sex and Relationship Engineer and Master Sensual Masseur, my work is rooted in a humanistic approach to sex and intimacy. I see myself not just as a practitioner but as a sex educator and problem solver, dedicated to helping individuals and couples transform their relationships and sex lives into something truly fulfilling and deserving. Since 2005, I have been fully immersed in this field, developing and employing a range of unconventional methods that address the unique challenges people face in their intimate lives.

My work combines deep knowledge of sexual and relationship psychology with hands-on experience as a sensual masseur, enabling me to address both the emotional and sexual aspects of my clients’ needs. I work with single women, men, and couples of all ages and orientations, tackling a variety of issues. Some of the more frequent challenges I help people with include:

• Relationship conflict and finding the right partner
• Reawakening one’s sex life and overcoming sexual frustration
• Addressing lack of sexual experience and performance challenges, such as the inability to orgasm or erectile issues
• Managing fear of sex and sexual complacency in long-term relationships
• Addressing libido issues, particularly for women experiencing fluctuating or low libido

Since founding Intimacy Matters in 2012, I have helped over 6,000 people navigate various aspects of their relationships and sexuality. My approach is best described as humanistic, considering the biological, psychological, social, anthropological, and erotic influences that shape our sensual desires, curiosities, and fears. I work inclusively with individuals and couples of all sexual orientations, always aiming to create a space where they can explore and resolve their deepest intimate challenges. Read More