About Colin
As a full-time practitioner since July 2005, I’ve helped over 10,000 clients achieve better sex, improve sexual confidence, and understand their partner’s and others’ sexuality. I offer sensual massage treatments, psychosensual treatments, counselling, sensual massage classes and group workshops.
I believe sexuality is a cornerstone of identity; if it’s not aligned, the whole self can feel unstable. Whether you’re facing a specific issue, exploring your sexual potential, or addressing sexual incompatibility in a relationship, I can help. My approach considers all aspects of human sexuality—biological, psychological, social, anthropological, emotional, and reproductive. When these drivers are out of balance, they can cause frustration, conflict, and even ill health. Let me help you achieve a balanced and fulfilling sexual life. Read more .
Colin has over 280 5 Star reviews from satisfied clients – Read them here
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Sensual Treatments For Women, Men & Couples
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Reignite your passion and deepen your connection with a sensual massage.
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To achieve better sex in relationships, it’s crucial to understand what we enjoy. A sensual massage is both pleasurable and informative. Each session combines traditional therapeutic techniques with intimate, sensual strokes for the ultimate experience. Often described as a seduction of body and mind, the journey begins with light touch, transitions into firm muscle work, and subtly moves into intimate arousal. With 20 years of experience, Colin draws on his unique knowledge of sexual psychology, physiology, and primal sexual processes to give, reputedly, one of the best sensual massages in the UK. Read Colin’s 280 five-star reviews.
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IMPORTANT TO NOTE—All online bookings are only held as provisional and are not confirmed until Colin contacts you to confirm his availability or offer an alternative.
Intimacy X – Uncensored Descriptions & Videos
Age-restricted area giving explicit details and videos
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Join The Intimacy Matters Chat Group
A Telegram Chat Group for Intimacy Matters Clients and Followers to bring together a community of likeminded sensualists. Join the chat group and get to know people in your area or country that also have a likeminded love of sensual massage and erotic intimacy. Click here to read more
Couples Exploration
Sensual Massage For Couples – Pleasure in Exploration
Discover the Secrets to Better Sex & Orgasm in your Relationships
Cuckold & Tandem Massages
Many couples are exploring new sensual and sexual experiences. Some long-term couples seek to revitalize their sex life, while newer couples aim to build an intimate connection with an open sexual agenda. Whatever their motivation, I tailor each treatment for a couple to their specific desires. For more details of the massages avialble to couples. Click here
40% Discount Offer
Rise & Shine – For new female clients ONLY – This introductory massage for women must be booked to start between 9 am and 11am Monday to Saturday.
The Last Minute (on the day) Appointment option is available to anyone (men women & couples) run on an enquire-on-the-day basis – up to 30% discount.
Xtra Movies
A selection of twelve short and feature-length movies displays various sensual massage forms.
- Male giving to female
- Female giving to male
- Four hands female giving to male
- Four hands male male giving to male
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Psychosensual Treatments
Practical and psychological help with sexual performance challenges
A unique combination of talk & touch to help overcome intimacy issues. The psychosensual treatment is available for women, men and couples and is a unique process created by Colin to help people with challenging sexual relationships and sexual performance issues. For example:-
- Struggle to orgasm
- Struggle to hold erections
- Struggle not to ejaculate before you want to
- Struggle with sex in general (guilt, shame, fear)
Problems with Orgasm for Women
Discover the Secrets to Better Sex & Orgasm in your Relationships
I have fifteen years of experience helping women achieve better and more fulfilling sex. Many of these women come to me because they experience either situational anorgasmia or total anorgasmia. This is a condition that is far more common than many realise. It is estimated that over 40% of women experience, at some time, challenges with reaching orgasm. Although I can not guarantee I can help a woman overcome the problem, I have helped many finally achieve a level of sexual satisfaction that they are pleased with. Read More
Sensual Massage Training
Sensual Massage Training for Individuals or Couples
Unlock the full potential of your intimate connections with these exclusive live and online private training sessions! Whether you’re a single man, woman, or a couple, our sensual massage and advanced foreplay techniques are designed to bring new excitement and confidence into your sex life. Learn how to give a sensual massage that transforms ordinary moments into extraordinary experiences, enhancing both your pleasure and that of your partner.
The training is inclusive and welcoming to all sexualities, with options to practice on selected volunteer models or with your partner. Choose from a variety of trainings tailored to your needs and goals:
Individual live classes with models are held in London Click here
Online classes (worldwide) Click here
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Sensual Massage Social
Held the last Thursday of each month (occasionally Saturday / Sunday day time) this is an event for like-minded lovers of sensual massage and intimate erotic foreplay to meet, chat, mingle and practice their skills and natural talents on their partners or with their consent, other guests. A relaxed get-together for couples, single women, and a few single men to explore and practice their learned sensual arousal skills and love of sensual massage in the safe and discreet environment of Colin’s private apartment in Sloane Square, Chelsea.
Next socials – Tickets on sale now
Thursday 26th September 7pm – 11pm
Thursday 24th October 7pm – 11pm
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Massage My Woman Private Training
For men who like to give pleasure to women
Select your own date to take the class
From 2 – 5, 5, 10 or 20 hours of private classes teaching men the art of giving sensual massage to enhance foreplay and incorporating innovative sex play techniques for their female partners to experience extended sexual pleasure. These classes include practical sessions giving sensual massages to specially selected female volunteer receivers. To read more and apply, Click here
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Massage My Man Private Training
For women who like to give pleasure to men
These 2.5, 5, 10 & 20-hour private sensual massage classes are perfect for a woman who wants to enhance her confidence in giving sensual and erotic pleasure to men. Practising on specially selected and vetted male volunteer receivers or a friend of your choice, you are taught a step-by-step sensual massage routine. The Massage My Man classes teach therapeutic and sensual strokes to create gradual arousal, building a crescendo of erotic touch. Read More
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Subscribe to Video Tutorials
Learn to give a sensual massage online
If you can not see Colin for a sensual massage class in person, then look at his online teaching platform. Intimate Tutorials is a library of authentic, explicitly detailed video tutorials and demonstration movies. It features over 20 hours of explicit material that covers sensual massage techniques, specific sexual arousal methods, interviews with experts and equipment demonstrations.
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What kind of people come to see you
A variety of people come to see Colin.
Single individuals, couples, and those seeking to improve their intimate lives, explore sexual adventure, or gain a deeper understanding of their sexuality, desires, and fantasies—all are welcome. No matter your physique, age, orientation, or experience level, Colin has helped people from all walks of life over his 18-year career as a Somatic Sex Engineer & Sensual Masseur. As he says, “Everyone deserves to have the best and most fulfilling sex life possible.” Watch this video to hear Colin’s insights and explore 15 more fascinating clips where he answers various questions about his work- Click here.