About Colin
As a full-time practitioner since July 2005, I’ve helped over 10,000 clients achieve better sex, improve sexual confidence, and understand their partner’s and others’ sexuality. I offer sensual massage treatments, psychosensual treatments, counselling, sensual massage classes and group workshops.
I believe sexuality is a cornerstone of identity; if it’s not aligned, the whole self can feel unstable. Whether you’re facing a specific issue, exploring your sexual potential, or addressing sexual incompatibility in a relationship, I can help. Read more .
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Sensual Treatments For Women, Men & Couples
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Reignite your passion and deepen your connection with a sensual massage.
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To achieve better sex in relationships, it’s crucial to understand what we enjoy. A sensual massage is both pleasurable and informative. Each session combines traditional therapeutic techniques with intimate, sensual strokes for the ultimate experience. Often described as a seduction of body and mind, the journey begins with light touch, transitions into firm muscle work, and subtly moves into intimate arousal. With 20 years of experience, Colin draws on his unique knowledge of sexual psychology, physiology, and primal sexual processes to give, reputedly, one of the best sensual massages in the UK. Read Colin’s 300 five-star reviews.
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What is Intimacy X?
Intimacy X is a password-protected area within the Intimacy Matters web site. Access is only for those over 18 years of age. Access is FREE
What you get to see when you register to get access to Intimacy X
- Free – Uncensored demonstration videos of the Women’s Absolute Massage
- Free – Uncensored demonstration videos of the Mens Premium Massage
- Full descriptions of all the massages available at Intimacy Matters
- Explanation of the intimacy levels for 4 hands massage and couples tandem massage
- Ten further ( pay per view ) videos of massage being given
- Profiles of associate masseurs who give 4 hands with Colin
Join Sensual Connect
SENSUAL CONNECT
NETWORKING ON AN INTIMATE LEVEL
Your gateway to sensual & erotic exploration with fellow sensualists
If you believe that sensuality is more than just a prelude—if you see foreplay as an art that deepens intimacy, enhances pleasure, and creates lasting connections—then Sensual Connect is the space for you.
This exclusive networking platform is designed for those who appreciate the beauty of sensual massage, erotic touch, and meaningful intimacy. Here, foreplay isn’t just about initiating sex; it’s about exploration, anticipation, and shared pleasure—a journey that heightens emotional and physical connection, making every encounter more fulfilling. Read more
Couples Exploration Massage
Sensual Massage For Couples – Pleasure in Exploration
Discover the Secrets to Better Sex & Orgasm in your Relationships
Cuckold & Tandem Massages
Many couples are exploring new sensual and sexual experiences. Some long-term couples seek to revitalize their sex life, while newer couples aim to build an intimate connection with an open sexual agenda. Whatever their motivation, I tailor each treatment for a couple to their specific desires. For more details of the massages avialble to couples. Click here
Special Offer for 1st Time Female Clients
Until March 31st 2025 – For new female clients ONLY
Payment in advance on booking
75 minute Absolute Superior Massage – £150
60 minute Intimacy Massage – £110
Xtra Movies
A selection of twelve short and feature-length movies displays various sensual massage forms.
- Male giving to female
- Female giving to male
- Four hands female giving to male
- Four hands male male giving to male
These movies are age-restricted and purchased via Pay per view – Click here
BOOK ONLINE
Instructions on how to check availability and book your appointment online.
- Click the BLUE BOOK HERE button below to access the booking portal.
IMPORTANT TO NOTE—All online bookings are only held as provisional and are not confirmed until Colin contacts you to confirm his availability or offer an alternative.
Psychosensual Treatments
Practical and psychological help with sexual performance challenges
A unique combination of talk & touch to help overcome intimacy issues. The psychosensual treatment is available for women, men and couples and is a unique process created by Colin to help people with challenging sexual relationships and sexual performance issues. For example:-
- Struggle to orgasm
- Struggle to hold erections
- Struggle not to ejaculate before you want to
- Struggle with sex in general (guilt, shame, fear)
Sensual Massage Classes & Training
Sensual Massage Training for Individuals or Couples
Unlock the full potential of your intimate connections with these exclusive live and online private training sessions! Whether you’re a single man, woman, or a couple, our sensual massage and advanced foreplay techniques are designed to bring new excitement and confidence into your sex life. Learn how to give a sensual massage that transforms ordinary moments into extraordinary experiences, enhancing both your pleasure and that of your partner.
The training is inclusive and welcoming to all sexualities, with options to practice on selected volunteer models or with your partner. Choose from a variety of trainings tailored to your needs and goals:
Individual live classes with models are held in London Click here
Online classes (worldwide) Click here
To see the list of the current booked individual sensual massage trainings Click here
Sensual Massage Social – Adult Event
An Afternoon of Sensual Connection & Erotic Exploration
Join us for an intimate and indulgent afternoon designed for like-minded couples who revel in the art of sensual massage and erotic foreplay. This is a unique opportunity to mingle, connect, and explore your desires in an atmosphere of sophistication and seduction.
Relax and unwind in the company of other passionate couples and a select few skilled masseurs, all brought together to celebrate touch, intimacy, and shared pleasure. Whether you wish to refine your sensual skills with your partner or, with mutual consent, explore new sensations with other guests, this gathering offers a safe and discreet space to surrender to erotic pleasure.
Hosted in Colin’s elegant private apartment in Sloane Square, Chelsea, this exclusive event promises a fabulous setting where chemistry, curiosity, and connection can flourish. Let your senses guide you as you embrace an afternoon of decadent exploration.
Next Dates – Tickets on sale now
2025
Saturday 10th May – 4pm to 8pm
Saturday 5th July – 4pm to 8pm
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Massage My Woman
Sensual Massage Training For Men Who Like Women
Select your own date to take the class
- Experiential 2.5 hours
- Foundation 6 hours
- Intermediate 6 hours
- Advanced 6 hour
- Professional Training 26 hours
Training teaching men the art of giving sensual massage to enhance foreplay and incorporating innovative sex play techniques for their female partners to experience extended sexual pleasure. To read more and apply, Click here
Massage My Man
Sensual Massage Training For Women Who Like Men
Select your own date to take the class
- Experiential 2.5 hours
- Foundation 6 hours
- Intermediate 6 hours
- Advanced 6 hour
- Professional Training 26 hours
Practising on specially selected and vetted male volunteer receivers or a friend of your choice, you are taught a step-by-step sensual massage routine. Read More
Problems with Orgasm for Women
Discover the Secrets to Better Sex & Orgasm in your Relationships
I have fifteen years of experience helping women achieve better and more fulfilling sex. Many of these women come to me because they experience either situational anorgasmia or total anorgasmia. This is a condition that is far more common than many realise. It is estimated that over 40% of women experience, at some time, challenges with reaching orgasm. Although I can not guarantee I can help a woman overcome the problem, I have helped many finally achieve a level of sexual satisfaction that they are pleased with. Read More
Subscribe to Video Tutorials
Learn to give a sensual massage online
If you can not see Colin for a sensual massage class in person, then look at his online teaching platform. Intimate Tutorials is a library of authentic, explicitly detailed video tutorials and demonstration movies. It features over 20 hours of explicit material that covers sensual massage techniques, specific sexual arousal methods, interviews with experts and equipment demonstrations.
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What kind of people come to see you Colin ?
A variety of people come to see Colin.
Single individuals, couples, and those seeking to improve their intimate lives, explore sexual adventure, or gain a deeper understanding of their sexuality, desires, and fantasies—all are welcome. No matter your physique, age, orientation, or experience level, Colin has helped people from all walks of life over his 18-year career as a Somatic Sex Engineer & Sensual Masseur. As he says, “Everyone deserves to have the best and most fulfilling sex life possible.” Watch this video to hear Colin’s insights and explore 15 more fascinating clips where he answers various questions about his work- Click here.